{"id":98,"date":"2008-03-06T13:33:01","date_gmt":"2008-03-06T17:33:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/?p=98"},"modified":"2008-03-06T13:39:54","modified_gmt":"2008-03-06T17:39:54","slug":"learning-focusing-listening-and-focusing-partnership-exchange","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/learning-focusing-listening-and-focusing-partnership-exchange\/","title":{"rendered":"Learning Focusing, Listening, and Focusing Partnership Exchange"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/03\/capitulo-tres-el-intercambio-de-escucha.doc\" title=\"Capitulo Tres: El Intercambio de Escucha\">Capitulo Tres: El Intercambio de Escucha<\/a><\/strong><\/font><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/wp-content\/uploads\/2008\/03\/chapter-three-focusing-partnership-exchange.doc\" title=\"Chapter Three: Listening\/Focusing Exchange\">Chapter Three: Listening\/Focusing Exchange<\/a><\/strong><\/font><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong><font face=\"Times New Roman\">Click links for free downloads of word file of manual chapter<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"><strong>THE LISTENING\/FOCUSING EXCHANGE<\/strong><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font face=\"Times New Roman\">The basic, core model for interpersonal forms of Gendlin\u2019s Focusing is the <a href=\"http:\/\/cefocusing.com\/casestudies\/6a2.php\" title=\"website Case Study Focusing Partnership\">Focusing Partnership<\/a>: the equal exchange of turns between peer counselors. One person uses Focusing to pay attention to the murky \u201cintuitive feel,\u201d the \u201cfelt sense\u201d of an issue or problem needing solving. The other person responds with Empathic Listening, simply trying to \u201csay back\u201d or \u201creflect\u201d the words of the Focuser, with emphasis upon the \u201cfeeling tone\u201d and the murky, unclear Edge. The Listener might also give Focusing Invitations to help the Focuser go more deeply into the \u201cfelt sense\u201d of the issue.<\/font><o:p><font face=\"Times New Roman\">\u00a0<\/font><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">Then, after the designated time is up, the two share feedback about being the Focuser and being the Listener in that turn, then switch roles. The first Focuser now becomes the Listener, and the initial Listener becomes the Focuser, for an equal period of time.<\/font><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong><font face=\"Times New Roman\">THE FOCUSING PARTNERSHIP PROGRAM<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\">Gendlin\u2019s international Focusing Institute offers a Focusing Partnership program, a way in which people can form Focusing Partnerships for face-to-face or phone Focusing Partnership sessions world-wide. Those with no initial Listening\/Focusing training can participate in two paid training sessions in numerous languages and by phone. Then they can join the Focusing Partnership pool.\u00a0Click here to find all about the <a href=\"http:\/\/www.focusing.org\/partnership\/partner_info\/partnership_index.htm\" title=\"website Focusing Partnership Program\">Focusing Partnership Program<\/a>\u00a0at The Focusing Institute website.<\/font><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong><font face=\"Times New Roman\">SELF-HELP MANUAL TEACHING FOCUSING PARTNERSHIP<\/font><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><font face=\"Times New Roman\">I have taught Focusing Partnership, which I have called the Listening\/Focusing Exchange for thirty years, since my own initial experience of Focusing Partnership in the original Changes Listening\/Focusing Community in <st1:city w:st=\"on\"><st1:place w:st=\"on\">Chicago<\/st1:place><\/st1:city> starting in 1968. My manual, <em>Focusing In Community: How To Start A Listening\/Focusing Support Group (Focusing En <span>\u00a0<\/span>Comunidad: <st1:city w:st=\"on\"><st1:place w:st=\"on\">Como<\/st1:place><\/st1:city> Empezar Un Grupo De Apoyo De Escucha Y Focusing)<\/em> includes thorough instructions in how to do Focusing Partnerships and how to include them within a Focusing Group\/Team\/Community.<\/font><o:p><font face=\"Times New Roman\">\u00a0<\/font><\/o:p><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><font face=\"Times New Roman\"><strong>Download the complete Chapter Three: The Listening\/Focusing Exchange (Capitulo Tres: El Intercambio de Escucha)\u00a0from the manual<span>\u00a0<\/span>to begin exploring these wonderful self-help tools. Use the links at the top of this blog.<\/strong><\/font><\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p style=\"margin: 0in 0in 0pt\" class=\"MsoNormal\"><strong>Find links to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/?page_id=79\" title=\"Links to Resources\"><font color=\"#b85b5a\">free articles, personality tests, multi-media\u00a0Self-Help training, Classes and workshops<\/font><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/about\/index.php#kathy\" title=\"Dr. Kathy McGuire, Director\"><font color=\"#0066cc\">Dr. Kathy McGuire<\/font><\/a>, Director<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/about\/index.php\" title=\"About Creative Edge Focusing (TM)\"><font color=\"#b85b5a\">Creative Edge Focusing (TM)<\/font><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/\"><font color=\"#b85b5a\">www.cefocusing.com<\/font><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The site of new insights and creative solutions is at the edge of what is already known. This edge, The Creative Edge, holds implicit within it all past and future knowing about the problem, more than could ever be put into words in a linear way\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Capitulo Tres: El Intercambio de Escucha Chapter Three: Listening\/Focusing Exchange Click links for free downloads of word file of manual chapter &nbsp; THE LISTENING\/FOCUSING EXCHANGE The basic, core model for interpersonal forms of Gendlin\u2019s Focusing is the Focusing Partnership: the equal exchange of turns between peer counselors. 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