{"id":92,"date":"2008-02-17T17:55:14","date_gmt":"2008-02-17T21:55:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/?p=92"},"modified":"2008-02-17T17:57:48","modified_gmt":"2008-02-17T21:57:48","slug":"complete-focusing-exercise-interpersonal-situation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/complete-focusing-exercise-interpersonal-situation\/","title":{"rendered":"COMPLETE FOCUSING EXERCISE: INTERPERSONAL SITUATION"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00a0PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\n<\/strong>This is the beginning of a new four week cycle. For four weeks, we practice an actual exercise in three different categories: An Instant &#8220;Ahah!&#8221; to integrate into your every day life at work and at home, a Felt Sensing exercise to practice this step of Focusing, and a Complete Focusing Session. Actually doing the exercise which\u00a0 arrives in each e-newsletter insures that you can call upon these new skills when needed!<br \/>\n<strong>COMPLETE FOCUSING SESSION: SITTING WITH THE CREATIVE EDGE OF AN INTERPERSONAL SITUATION<br \/>\n<\/strong>\u00a0<br \/>\nEarlier this week you received <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/?p=88\" title=\"Interpersonal: Honoring Subjectivity\">Interpersonal Focusing : &#8220;This flower is beautiful To ME&#8221;, <\/a>showing how owning our own reactions, instead of blaming them on the other, actually empowers us to begin to change interpersonal situations, and <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/?p=89\" title=\"Interpersonal Felt Sensing Exercise\">Interpersonal Felt Sensing Exercise<\/a>, inviting you to find the bodily, &#8220;intuitive feel&#8221; of five unresolved interpersonal situations (that blog also contains links to downloads of Chapter Five: Interpersonal Focusing (Capitulo Cinco: El Proceso Interpersonal) from\u00a0Dr. McGuire&#8217;s manual, <em>Focusing In Community (Focusing en Comunidad).<\/em><br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nIn the Complete Focusing Session for each of the next four weeks, you will be invited to take one of these interpersonal situations and sense into, &#8220;sit with&#8221; it in a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/coreconcepts\/1a1.php\" title=\"Intuitive Focusing\">Focusing<\/a> way, seeing what new information about yourself-in-this-situation can unfold.\u00a0<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nThroughout the month, we will also explore methods for communicating and using Listening\/Focusing turns with the actual other person as a way of resolving <a href=\"http:\/\/cefocusing.com\/casestudies\/6a3.php\" title=\"Interpersonal Focusing Case Study\">interpersonal conflict<\/a>. The &#8220;felt sense&#8221; in each person in an interpersonal situation contains a Creative Edge which, when shared,\u00a0 can carry both problem solving and relationship forward.<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nBut, in Complete Focusing, you are going more deeply into &#8220;owning&#8221; the personal dimension of the interaction for yourself, given the person that you are.<br \/>\n<strong>\u00a0<br \/>\n<\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/archive.constantcontact.com\/fs018\/1101671080238\/archive\/1101975435741.html\" title=\"Complete Focusing Interpersonal Exercise\"><strong>Focusing On A Specific Interpersonal Situation <\/strong><\/a><strong>(20 minutes) Click the link to find the actual Complete Focusing exercise in our e-newsletter archive.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Find links to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/?page_id=79\" title=\"Links to Resources\"><font color=\"#b85b5a\">free articles, personality tests, multi-media\u00a0Self-Help training, Classes and workshops<\/font><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/about\/index.php#kathy\" title=\"Dr. Kathy McGuire, Director\"><font color=\"#0066cc\">Dr. Kathy McGuire<\/font><\/a>, Director<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/about\/index.php\" title=\"About Creative Edge Focusing (TM)\"><font color=\"#b85b5a\">Creative Edge Focusing (TM)<\/font><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/\"><font color=\"#b85b5a\">www.cefocusing.com<\/font><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The site of new insights and creative solutions is at the edge of what is already known. 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