{"id":81,"date":"2008-01-26T17:21:08","date_gmt":"2008-01-26T21:21:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/?p=81"},"modified":"2008-01-26T17:21:08","modified_gmt":"2008-01-26T21:21:08","slug":"complete-focusing-session-how-am-i-today-noticing-critics-and-conflicts-inside","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/complete-focusing-session-how-am-i-today-noticing-critics-and-conflicts-inside\/","title":{"rendered":"COMPLETE FOCUSING SESSION: &#8220;HOW AM I TODAY?&#8221; &#8212; NOTICING CRITICS AND CONFLICTS INSIDE"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Caring Feeling Presence Inside<br \/>\n<\/strong>\u00a0<br \/>\nThis four weeks, while practicing a Complete Focusing Session, we are learning about turning a Caring Feeling Presence, the Focusing Attitude of friendly, curious, non-judgmental, gentle attention to whatever arises inside. We practiced finding <a href=\"http:\/\/archive.constantcontact.com\/fs018\/1101671080238\/archive\/1101935274359.html\" title=\"Caring Feeling Presence Week One\">Inner Nurturers and Inner Woundedness (Week 1), <\/a>Reestablishing Trust With Exiled, <a href=\"http:\/\/archive.constantcontact.com\/fs018\/1101671080238\/archive\/1101943873298.html\" title=\"Caring for Unpleasant Inner Selves Week Two\">&#8220;Unpleasant&#8221; Inner Aspects (Week 2<\/a>), and <a href=\"http:\/\/archive.constantcontact.com\/fs018\/1101671080238\/archive\/1101952281781.html\" title=\"Dealing With Inner Critics and Abusers Week Three\">Dealing With Critical Voices and Conflicts (Week 3).<\/a><br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\n<strong>Just Acknowledge Critical Voices, Say &#8220;I&#8217;ll be back later to spend time with you&#8221;<br \/>\n<\/strong>\u00a0<br \/>\nToday, when you practice the Complete Focusing Session #1: &#8220;How Am I Today?&#8221;, pay special attention to any Critical Voices which arise. In general, seeing a Critical Voice as an Inner Worrier or Inner Protector, you can simply notice it :&#8221; Okay, there is something saying &#8216;You&#8217;re no good at this; nothing is happening; Focusing is stupid&#8221; and, simply by noticing it, acknowledging it (saying &#8220;Hello,&#8221; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.focusingresources.com\" title=\"Focusing Resources\">Ann Weiser Cornell<\/a> says), you can often just set it aside for the moment and go back to your steps of Focusing.<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\nAt a later point, you might go back to that Critical Voice as part of your Focusing process: &#8220;Okay, now I would like to spend some time with the part that says &#8220;This is ridiculous; you are failing like always,&#8221; etc., and ask yourself, &#8220;Okay, what is that all about?&#8221;, and wait for the &#8220;feel of that whole thing&#8221; to form, and continue with the Focusing Steps:looking for words, images, symbols that capture the &#8220;intuitive feel,&#8221; resonating and checking until you find symbols that are &#8220;just right&#8221; and experience a release, a small or large &#8220;felt shift&#8221; or &#8220;paradigm shift.&#8221;<br \/>\n\u00a0<br \/>\n<strong>Articulate &#8220;Conflicts&#8221; Into &#8220;Two Sides&#8221; and Spend Time With Each&#8230;.(<a href=\"http:\/\/archive.constantcontact.com\/fs018\/1101671080238\/archive\/1101956501675.html\" title=\"Complete Focusing: Noticing Critics and Conflicts\">Read on here and find the Complete Focusing Instructions to practice <\/a>)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Download Dr. McGuire\u2019s article, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/pdf\/2F2bFocusingInnerChildWorkAbusedClientsFinal.PDF\" title=\"Focusing Inner Child Work\"><font color=\"#b85b5a\">Focusing Inner Child Work<\/font><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Find links to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/?page_id=79\" title=\"Links to Resources\"><font color=\"#b85b5a\">free articles, personality tests, multi-media\u00a0Self-Help training, Classes and workshops<\/font><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/about\/index.php#kathy\" title=\"Dr. Kathy McGuire, Director\"><font color=\"#0066cc\">Dr. Kathy McGuire<\/font><\/a>, Director<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/about\/index.php\" title=\"About Creative Edge Focusing (TM)\"><font color=\"#b85b5a\">Creative Edge Focusing (TM)<\/font><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/\"><font color=\"#b85b5a\">www.cefocusing.com<\/font><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The site of new insights and creative solutions is at the edge of what is already known. This edge, The Creative Edge, holds implicit within it all past and future knowing about the problem, more than could ever be put into words in a linear way\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Caring Feeling Presence Inside \u00a0 This four weeks, while practicing a Complete Focusing Session, we are learning about turning a Caring Feeling Presence, the Focusing Attitude of friendly, curious, non-judgmental, gentle attention to whatever arises inside. We practiced finding Inner Nurturers and Inner Woundedness (Week 1), Reestablishing Trust With Exiled, &#8220;Unpleasant&#8221; Inner Aspects (Week 2), [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,14,32,10,11,70],"tags":[184,183,198,181,195,52,160,193,199,163,194,182,200,192,186,197],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}