{"id":195,"date":"2008-12-08T22:51:30","date_gmt":"2008-12-09T02:51:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/?p=195"},"modified":"2008-12-08T22:51:30","modified_gmt":"2008-12-09T02:51:30","slug":"pre-focusing-practice-relaxation-exercise-counting-meditation","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.cefocusing.com\/wordpress\/pre-focusing-practice-relaxation-exercise-counting-meditation\/","title":{"rendered":"PRE-FOCUSING PRACTICE: RELAXATION EXERCISE — COUNTING MEDITATION"},"content":{"rendered":"

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From Creative Edge Focusing: This month’s Relaxation Exercise : COUNTING MEDITATION
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\nWeek One —“Ahhhhh….pause with me for ten minutes….and just relax!!! I will send a relaxation exercise each week as a reminder to pause…<\/p>\n

Relaxation, Guided Imagery, and meditation exercises are all ways of going inside to “clear a space” for a longer Intuitive Focusing<\/a> problem solving session. So, in Pre-Focusing Practice, you are learning these first steps of Intuitive Focusing. But all these relaxation exercises can be used alone as well, to give you a healthy break from stress any time.<\/p>\n

Some people find it easy to drop all their stress and enter into an interior Focusing space. But, many people need easy first steps of practice for “going quietly inside.” And even experienced Focusers get caught up in stress and business and welcome a reminder to take a moment to….pause…..(sigh!)…pay attention to their breathing…….(ahhhhhh!)……and…relax.
\nThe quiet time between instructions is an important time for just breathing—and relaxing.<\/p>\n

You can lie on the floor or, for most exercises, sit in a chair. If you fall asleep, it’s okay! Means you need more rest! But you may also want to practice sitting up to avoid sleeping.<\/p>\n

Especially at the beginning, time those “1 minute” pauses and enjoy relaxing in the imagery. You will be amazed at how long a minute is, how seldom we ever pause for a whole minute!!!<\/p>\n

Any of the Relaxation Exercises can be used at the beginning of a longer Focusing session, as a way of “clearing a space” inside, so notice which are your favorites you could call upon.<\/p>\n

COUNTING MEDITATION
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\nOur first Relaxation exercise #1 was Noticing. Then, in exercise #2 we did Guided Imagery At The Beach, then exercise #3, Guided Imagery in The Forest. Now, with Exercise #4 (p. 6 in the Free Download Complete Focusing Instructions, link at top of page), we go back to a meditation more like Noticing:<\/p>\n

Counting Meditation-Allow 10-15 minutes
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\nHere is a simple form of meditation, a way of quieting your mind from its continuous racing—You will learn to discipline yourself to pay attention to counting and breathing, setting aside any thoughts that distract you.<\/p>\n

This is not as simple as it sounds! Time and again, you will find that you have forgotten about counting and breathing and allowed your mind to return to its habitual ways of worrying. But the learning is in the trying. If you drift away, simply notice this and return to counting and breathing.<\/p>\n

—Lie down or sit down and make yourself comfortable—loosen any clothing that is too tight—
\n1 minute
\n—Stretch—and relax—stretch—and relax—stretch—and relax—10 seconds<\/p>\n

—Begin by simply notice your breathing—do not try to force it—just notice the breath going in—and out—in—and out—in—and out—10 seconds<\/p>\n

—Now, you are going to count from one to seven along with your breathing. Count each time you exhale. So, inhale, then, as you exhale, count “1” to yourself—inhale, and, as you exhale, count “2”—inhale, and, as you exhale, count “3”—and so on, until you reach “7”.
\n30 seconds
\n—When you reach “7,” just start over again, with inhale, then count “1” on the exhale— and continue up to “7.”
\n30 seconds
\n—You will find again and again that you have lost track of your counting and drifted off into random thoughts. Don’t punish yourself or get upset with yourself. Just notice and return to watching your breathing, and counting.
\n1 minute
\n— Continue repeating as long as you wish, noticing when your thoughts stray and just bringing yourself gently back to counting, from “1” to “7”, over and again—
\n5-10 minutes
\n—And, when you are, ready, slowly come back into the room.<\/p>\n

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