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		<title>Gendlin&#8217;s Focusing Teleclass April, 2010</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Mar 2010 15:14:36 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathy McGuire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Focusing Level 2 Class by teleconference, April, 2010 Ruth Hirsch www.ruthhirsch.com ]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Level 2 Focusing Training<br />
Advanced Listening &amp; Beginning Guiding/Facilitation</strong></p>
<p> 4 Sundays: April 11 through May 2:  10 am &#8211; 12:30 pm EDT (4 &#8211; 6:30 pm European daylight time)</p>
<p>Have you taken Level One Focusing training?</p>
<p>Are you ready to take the next step in your learning?</p>
<p>Or perhaps you want to continue, yet feel you haven&#8217;t yet quite grasped the material taught in Level One&#8230;.</p>
<p>This is a great opportunity to continue to deepen your Focusing skills, in a small group, from the comfort and convenience of your own home or office. Level Two Focusing Training begins with a review of the basics of Focusing covered in Level One.</p>
<p>The essence of the course is learning to be an increasingly facilitative companion to the Focusing process for yourself and for others. In this course you will enhance your skills in Focusing, both with a partner and by yourself. You will learn important advanced empathic listening (reflection) techniques that can be extremely helpful in deepening the Focuser&#8217;s ability to stay with what is there for them.</p>
<p>Some feedback received from students:</p>
<p>&#8220;I learned such an amazing amount in such a short time and it happened so naturally, organically, I have to say in such a focusing kind of way. As if I&#8217;d turn around and go, WOW, I learned so much! When/how did that happen?Almost seemed effortless!&#8221;<br />
And:</p>
<p>&#8220;You&#8217;re so good at creating a space where people almost instantly feel relaxed. Comfortable. People walk in so stressed .and soon feel comfortable. Even in a roomful of complete strangers.<br />
You are so present and accepting of whatever comes up. You are a unique, exceptional teacher.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>About the Trainer</strong>  Ruth Hirsch MSW, MPH, CMT is a Certified Focusing Trainer &amp; Coordinator based in Jerusalem. For 20 years she has maintained a private practice in which she works with people individually and in groups. In her individual work, she specializes in balancing and bringing peace and insight to body, mind, heart and spirit.  In her teaching, she delights in sharing Focusing with others as an individual life-enhancing practice, and as an adjunct to enhance the work of other healing professions.General Info  This course is limited to a maximum of 6 participants.  Largely experiential, the training is taught in a clear, compassionate, enjoyable manner.</p>
<p>Registration fees include tuition and a 100 page e-manual. The fee is $275, payable by credit card through PayPal, or by US check. (Space permitting, those who have already taken the course and would like to review may do so for half price.) To register, or for more information, please contact Ruth directly at <a href="mailto:ruth@ruthhirsch.com">ruth@ruthhirsch.com</a></p>
<p>RUTH HIRSCH  MSW, MPH, CMTFocusing Trainer  &amp; Certifying CoordinatorU.S.   510.868.0885 <a href="http://www.ruthhirsch.com">www.ruthhirsch.com</a></p>
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		<title>Positive Psychology: Raising Happy, Kind Children Evolutionarily Adaptive</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Mar 2010 20:34:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathy McGuire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In contrast to "every man for himself" interpretations of Charles Darwin's theory of evolution by natural selection, Dacher Keltner, a UC Berkeley psychologist and author of "Born to be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life," and his fellow social scientists are building the case that humans are successful as a species precisely because of our nurturing, altruistic and compassionate traits. Christine Carter writes "Raising Happiness" (Yasmin Anwar, AlterNet, March 4, 2010)]]></description>
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<p>Do Kinder People Have an Evolutionary Advantage?<br />
&#8220;Positive psychology&#8221; research indicates that the kinder you are, the more likely you are to survive &#8212; and evolve. Quoted from March 4, 2010 article from <a title="Positive Psychology article" href="http://ow.ly/1erud">AlterNet</a>, by Yasmin Anwar:</p>
<p>In contrast to &#8220;every man for himself&#8221; interpretations of Charles Darwin&#8217;s theory of evolution by natural selection, Dacher Keltner, a UC Berkeley psychologist and author of &#8220;Born to be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life,&#8221; and his fellow social scientists are building the case that humans are successful as a species precisely because of our nurturing, altruistic and compassionate traits.</p>
<p>They call it &#8220;survival of the kindest.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;Because of our very vulnerable offspring, the fundamental task for human survival and gene replication is to take care of others,&#8221; said Keltner, co-director of UC Berkeley&#8217;s Greater Good Science Center. &#8220;Human beings have survived as a species because we have evolved the capacities to care for those in need and to cooperate. As Darwin long ago surmised, sympathy is our strongest instinct.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8230;While much of the positive psychology being studied around the nation is focused on personal fulfillment and happiness, UC Berkeley researchers have narrowed their investigation into how it contributes to the greater societal good.</p>
<p>One outcome is the campus&#8217;s Greater Good Science Center, a West Coast magnet for research on gratitude, compassion, altruism, awe and positive parenting, whose benefactors include the Metanexus Institute, Tom and Ruth Ann Hornaday and the Quality of Life Foundation.</p>
<p>Christine Carter, executive director of the Greater Good Science Center, is creator of the &#8220;Science for Raising Happy Kids&#8221; Web site, whose goal, among other things, is to assist in and promote the rearing of &#8220;emotionally literate&#8221; children. Carter translates rigorous research into practical parenting advice. She says many parents are turning away from materialistic or competitive activities, and rethinking what will bring their families true happiness and well-being.</p>
<p>&#8220;I&#8217;ve found that parents who start consciously cultivating gratitude and generosity in their children quickly see how much happier and more resilient their children become,&#8221; said Carter, author of &#8220;Raising Happiness: 10 Simple Steps for More Joyful Kids and Happier Parents&#8221; which will be in bookstores in February 2010. &#8220;What is often surprising to parents is how much happier they themselves also become.&#8221; <a title="Kindness evolutionary article" href="http://ow.ly/1erud">Read whole article</a></p>
<p>See our own <a title="Creative Edge Education" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1c.php">Creative Edge education model</a>, teaching basic &#8220;emotional literacy&#8221; self-help skills of Intuitive Focusing and Focused Listening to increase creativity and empathy throughout life.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/complete-focusing-instructions-manual.doc"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>Complete Focusing Instructions Manual (17 pages)</strong></span></a></p>
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<p><strong>Creative Edge Focusing (TM) (</strong><a href="http://www.cefocusing.com/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>www.cefocusing.com</strong></span></a><strong> )</strong> teaches two basic self-help skills, <a title="Intuitive Focusing Instructions" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a1.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>Intuitive Focusing</strong></span></a> and <a title="Focused Listening instructions at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a2.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>Focused Listening</strong></span></a>, which can be applied at home and at work through <a title="Creative Edge Pyramid described at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a4.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>The Creative Edge Focusing Pyramid</strong></span></a>.</p>
<p><strong>Based upon Gendlin’s Experiential Focusing (</strong><a onclick="urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/www.focusing.org');" href="http://www.focusing.org/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>www.focusing.org</strong></span></a><strong> ) and Rogers’ Empathic Listening,</strong> our website is packed with Free Resources and instructions in these basic self-help skills. Learn how to build S<a title="Building Supportive Community at CEF Website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1b.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;"><strong>upport Groups</strong></span></a>, <a title="Conscious Relationships at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1e.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;"><strong>Conscious Relationships</strong></span></a>, and <a title="Creative Edge Organizations at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1a.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;"><strong>Creative Edge Organizations </strong></span></a>based upon these basic skills of emotional intelligence.</p>
<p><a title="Resources page at WordPress" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/?page_id=79"><strong><span style="color: #454673;">Resources: Free Articles, Training, Classes</span></strong></a></p>
<p><a title="Dr. Kathy McGuire, Director" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/about/index.php#kathy"><span style="color: #0066cc;"><strong>Dr. Kathy McGuire</strong></span></a>, Director</p>
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<p>The site of new insights and creative solutions is at the edge of what is already known. This edge, The Creative Edge, holds implicit within it all past and future knowing about the problem, more than could ever be put into words in a linear way</p>
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		<title>HARD-WIRED FOR COLLABORATION: PHYSICAL TOUCH INCREASES PERFORMANCE</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Mar 2010 17:23:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathy McGuire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Physical touch stengthens creative problem solving and performance. In Born To Be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life (Norton, 2009), Dacher Keltner cites research indicating that simply giving a reassuring physical touch (a high-five, a chest bump, a shoulder pat) can increase performance on the basketball court, in intimate relationship, in the classroom, everywhere! Humans are wired to seek collaborative effort to "share the load" of problem solving.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In <a title="Keltner book at amazon.com" href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_noss?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&amp;field-keywords=Keltner+Born+To+Be+Good&amp;x=12&amp;y=20"><em>Born To Be Good: The Science of a Meaningful Life </em>(Norton, 2009), </a> Dacher Keltner of UC/Berkeley discusses the relationship between physical touch and performance: a supportive touch on the shoulder can increase participation in classrooms, and new research by Michael Kraus and co-authors Cassy Huang and Keltner, soon to appear in the journal <em>Emotion</em>, shows that basketball teams where players touched each other, in a supportive way, performed better than those with less touch. Highest performing players were also those giving the highest number of supportive touches. As summarized in a recent article by Benedict Carey of  <em>The New York Times</em>, &#8220;Touchy-feely sports teams have edge, evidence suggests,&#8221;:</p>
<p>&#8220;A warm touch seems to set off the release of oxytocin, a hormone that helps create a sensation of trust, and to reduce levels of the stress hormone cortisol. In the brain, prefrontal areas that help regulate emotion can relax, freeing them for another of their primary purposes: problem solving. In effect, the body interprets a supportive touch as &#8216;I&#8217;ll share the load.&#8217;</p>
<p>&#8216;We think that humans build relationships precisely for this reason, to distribute problem solving across brains,&#8217; says James A. Coan, a psychologist at the University of Virginia. &#8216;We are wired to literally share the processing load, and this is the signal we&#8217;re getting when we receive support through touch.&#8217; &#8221;</p>
<p>More evidence for the assumptions of Creative Edge Focusing (TM)&#8217;s model for <a title="Creative Edge Organizations at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1a.php">Creative Edge Organizations</a>, where more &#8220;feminine&#8221; values of support, empathy, listening, colleagiality, and attention to relationships feed the bottom line, encouraging creative problem solving through collaboration.</p>
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<p><a href="http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/complete-focusing-instructions-manual.doc"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>Complete Focusing Instructions Manual (17 pages)</strong></span></a></p>
<p><a href="http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/mini_manual_-_finished_6-7-07-for-pdf.doc"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>“Ajas” Instantaneos Mini-Manual</strong></span></a></p>
<p><strong>Creative Edge Focusing (TM) (</strong><a href="http://www.cefocusing.com/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>www.cefocusing.com</strong></span></a><strong> )</strong> teaches two basic self-help skills, <a title="Intuitive Focusing Instructions" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a1.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>Intuitive Focusing</strong></span></a> and <a title="Focused Listening instructions at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a2.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>Focused Listening</strong></span></a>, which can be applied at home and at work through <a title="Creative Edge Pyramid described at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a4.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>The Creative Edge Focusing Pyramid</strong></span></a>.</p>
<p><strong>Based upon Gendlin’s Experiential Focusing (</strong><a onclick="urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/www.focusing.org');" href="http://www.focusing.org/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>www.focusing.org</strong></span></a><strong> ) and Rogers’ Empathic Listening,</strong> our website is packed with Free Resources and instructions in these basic self-help skills. Learn how to build S<a title="Building Supportive Community at CEF Website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1b.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;"><strong>upport Groups</strong></span></a>, <a title="Conscious Relationships at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1e.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;"><strong>Conscious Relationships</strong></span></a>, and <a title="Creative Edge Organizations at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1a.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;"><strong>Creative Edge Organizations </strong></span></a>based upon these basic skills of emotional intelligence.</p>
<p><a title="Resources page at WordPress" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/?page_id=79">Resources: Free Articles, Training, Classes</a></p>
<p><a title="Dr. Kathy McGuire, Director" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/about/index.php#kathy"><span style="color: #0066cc;"><strong>Dr. Kathy McGuire</strong></span></a>, Director</p>
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<p>The site of new insights and creative solutions is at the edge of what is already known. This edge, The Creative Edge, holds implicit within it all past and future knowing about the problem, more than could ever be put into words in a linear way</p>
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		<title>Focusing and Architecture: Designing From The Inside Out</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 23:17:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathy McGuire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Architecture is revisioned through Susanka's Not So Big concept, design which starts with the wants and needs of owners. "Masculine" vs. "Feminine" struggle archetypically with house design. Gendlin's Focusing, and Active Listening look for compromise in designing from the inside (unique wants/needs/functions) out as well as the outside (site, location, artistic vision) in.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">In <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">The Not So Big House</em> and <em style="mso-bidi-font-style: normal;">Creating The Not So Big House</em> books, <a title="Susanka on amazon.com" href="http://www.amazon.com/Not-So-Big-House-Collection/dp/1600851525/ref=sr_1_9?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1260830474&amp;sr=1-9">Sarah Susanka</a> (amazon link) advocates leaving the vaulted-ceiling mansions that have become the hallmark of house design and returning to designing houses that are specifically tailored to the very personal and unique needs of the homeowner who will live in the architect-designed home. Quality replaces quantity; intimate detailing replaces square footage.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">Recently, as my husband and I hired an architect and began the schematic design process for our future retirement home, I found myself in the midst of an &#8220;archetypal&#8221; battle. I see it as defined by the clash of &#8220;masculine&#8221; vs. &#8220;feminine,&#8221; &#8220;Thinking vs. Feeling&#8221; modes of being, based upon psychiatrist C.G. Jung&#8217;s descriptions and psychological tests such as the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator and Keirsey Temperament Sorter (see <a title="Jung, MBTI, Theory" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/pdf/2f1n_Jung_MBTI_Exp_Theory.pdf">&#8220;Jung, MBTI, and Experiential Theory&#8221; </a> for explanations and <a title="CEF website links to Personality Tests" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/freeresources/2e.php">Creative Edge Focusing Personality Tests</a> for links for some free versions of these tests).</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">My husband and I had agreed, after seeing the book <a title="amazon link for great bargain price" href="http://www.amazon.com/New-Minimalist-Houses-Anja-Llorella/dp/B002BWQ540/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1260830786&amp;sr=1-1"><em>New Minimalist Houses</em></a><em> </em>(this is Amazon link for great bargain price, $50 reduced to $15!), that Minimalist could describe the kind of house we wanted &#8212; lots of glass/concrete/steel, as little as possible between us and the surrounding nature of our 20-acre forest on a ridge. But, it turned out, this was about all we agreed on!</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">Mind you, both the architect and my husband are feminist, egalitarian, good listeners. And I am a Ph.D. scholar.Yet, there was something about this opportunity to design from a blank slate that engaged all of us in visions to which we desperately wanted to cling, making it almost impossible to &#8220;hear from&#8221; the opposing view .</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">The architect followed a method he is known for, going to the home site, hiking for hours, sitting for hours if needed, until he came up with an inspiration for the design of the house, knowing some about us but a lot about the site and location. He ended up discovering a totally different and much better site location for the house, in our twenty acres of forest, and offering creative and striking designs for a one- and two-story version of our house.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">The architect&#8217;s proposed one-story design was much like The Air House in the Minimalist book &#8212; a long rectangle of glass, spread along the ridge, with views and light from North and South. My husband fell in love with it, as it let light enter every room from both north and south.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">Okay, I thought, I can live with that, but I want the Guest Area/Project Room/Full Bath closer to the rest of the house, not across a breezeway, I said. I said the Garage and Shop can go across the breezeway. I knew that, at a distance, I would not use the space for Projects, and it would be empty, wasted square footage except when Guests came. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">I also wanted the Full Bath to be shared with the two Studies at that end of the house, so that the three spaces, Guest/Project, Study, Study could function as bedrooms, if our future aging needs or future buyers needed such a constellation. I thought my husband would be happy with the striking southern views and light he could have from his shop. And he was okay with this compromise.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">And here the epic struggle began. The architect would come back with his original design, saying &#8220;the house&#8221; needs the Guest/Project/Bath across the courtyard, or &#8220;there needs to be a living space across the courtyard to balance the design.&#8221; I would counter with &#8220;I&#8221; need them on this side of the courtyard, so they can function together as three bedrooms, if needed. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">And yet his design would come back again, modified some but still with Project/Guest/Bath at a distance from the rest of the house (given geographical distance, we were communicating by email, not ideal!). Finally I said, &#8220;You keep trying to ISOLATE this space, and I am trying to CONNECT it.&#8221;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">I also mentioned casually to my husband that I would like a Front Porch, where I could sit and watch nature go by, and where visitors could find a sheltered entry. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">Reading Susanka, I also found some confirmation for my wish for some bay windows to serve as alcoves at the edges of the minimalist open floor plan. I was afraid that flat, rectangular expanses of glass wall would not &#8220;draw us in&#8221; to the view, would seem cold and distant. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">And my husband, usually very mild-mannered,  freaked out: &#8220;No! No bumps! The house is to be sleek, sleek, not full of bumps and lumps.&#8221;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">It seemed to me that each of them, husband and architect, were quite comfortable with accommodating the needs of the residents to the needs of the design, the conceptual needs of &#8220;the house.&#8221; They could look at a floor plan and fall in love with it. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">I however, could not imagine living, feeling alive, in a house that was like a shell laid over and against my actual living, constraining me into a particular shape.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">Through an epic struggle coming close to divorce and firing of the architect, we have come to an understanding, a compromise which I call &#8220;cozy minimalism,&#8221; incorporating Susanka&#8217;s sensitivity to the human longing for enclosed, sheltered &#8220;alcoves&#8221; at the edges of open floor plan spaces with the flying visions, open spaces, and angles of minimalism.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">We are entering a period of design where the architect will mainly LISTEN as my husband and I articulate our intuitive sense of our own wants and needs, and then come up with creative, unique ideas and methods for incorporating, aned compromising, those needs. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">Out of this new dialogue, already a possible &#8220;roof garden&#8221; and &#8220;sunroom/breakfast nook&#8221; alcove have arisen to soften The Air House into an individualized home, yet keep the soaring aspects of the architect&#8217;s inspiration.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">For more on The Not So Big concept, designing from &#8220;the inside out,&#8221; from careful attention to the unique needs of the homeowner, see the Susanka books cited above.</span></p>
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		<title>MICHAEL JACKSON: CREATIVITY AND BIPOLAR DISORDER</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kathy McGuire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Kay Redfield Jamison studied the relationship between creativity and madness. She terms manic-depressive, or bipolar, disorder "a terminal illness," e.g., if not treated with appropriate medication and/or psychotherapy, ending in death. Did Michael Jackson and other extremely creative people who died prematurely from addiction, suicide, and reckless living suffer from manic-depressive disorder? Is there a way to treat the "super-human" energy of creativity without dimming its spark?]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">In her book, <em><a title="Touched With Fire at Amazon.com" href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&amp;field-keywords=Kay+Redfield+Jamison&amp;x=17&amp;y=22">Touched With Fire: Manic-Depressive Illness and The Artistic Temperament</a> </em>, Kay Redfield Jamison researched the relationship between creativity and madness. Looking at Poet Laureats of England, and their family histories, she found that, yes, there was a statistically significant greater incidence of institutionalization for mental illness and suicide in these highly creative people and their ancestors.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">Jamison concluded that manic-depressive disorder, unless treated with medication and/or psychotherapy, was a TERMINAL ILLNESS &#8212; e.g., highly likely to end in death from direct suicide or the slower suicide of alcoholism and other addictions.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">In her next book, <em><a title="Unquiet Mind at Amazon.com" href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&amp;field-keywords=Kay+Redfield+Jamison&amp;x=17&amp;y=22">An Unquiet Mind: A Memoir of Moods and Madness</a></em>, Jamison, a neuro-psychiatrist, presented herself as suffering from manic-depressive disorder (recently renamed as &#8220;bipolar disorder&#8221;) of an extreme form, including psychotic hallucinations. When depressed, she saw blood streaming down her windows; when manic, she bought all the snake bite kits in her city, fearing an overrun of snakes.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">Jamison describes the difficulty in giving up the manic state, giving up the poetic, mysterious, depressive boyfriends, the heightened sense of aliveness. But she also describes the final pleasures of stable relationship and stable moods. She also sees psychotherapy as a viable option to long-term medication.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">I did not know Michael Jackson. I cannot diagnose him. But I wonder when I see &#8220;super-human&#8221; people, many of them performers, crash and burn. Jamison says, &#8220;Manic-depressive disorder is a terminal illness.&#8221;</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">Manic-depressive, or bipolar, disorder comes on a continuum of severity, from the mild ups and downs of mood to more pronounced cycles of mood to the extremes of psychotic hallucination. It is not uncommon for great artists to wake up with a whole symphony written in their head, to stay awake for several days writing it all down, to be bursting with energy. This can be a manifestation of mania.</span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">Does that mean the person is mentally ill, and not creative? Not at all. The creations stand as authentic. It is only the ravages of such creativity on the physical body, and the effect of its cyclical aftermath of depression upon the creator that is of concern. </span></p>
<p class="MsoNormal" style="margin: 0in 0in 10pt;"><span style="line-height: 115%; font-family: &quot;Times New Roman&quot;,&quot;serif&quot;; font-size: 12pt;">I hope that, using Jamison&#8217;s wisdom and research and personal experience, we can help our &#8220;super-humans,&#8221; those with monstrous creativity, to receive help that might stabilize their lives and help them stop self-medicating with addiction and STAY ALIVE, <span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>without putting out their mighty creative spark.</span></p>
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<p><strong>Based upon Gendlin’s Experiential Focusing (</strong><a onclick="urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/www.focusing.org');" href="http://www.focusing.org/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>www.focusing.org</strong></span></a><strong> ) and Rogers’ Empathic Listening,</strong> our website is packed with Free Resources and instructions in these basic self-help skills. Learn how to build S<a title="Building Supportive Community at CEF Website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1b.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;"><strong>upport Groups</strong></span></a>, <a title="Conscious Relationships at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1e.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;"><strong>Conscious Relationships</strong></span></a>, and <a title="Creative Edge Organizations at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1a.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;"><strong>Creative Edge Organizations </strong></span></a>based upon these basic skills of emotional intelligence.</p>
<p><strong>You can try out    </strong><a title="Focusing exercise at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/freeresources/2a1a.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>“Focusing: Find Out What Is Bothering You.”</strong></span></a></p>
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		<dc:creator>Kathy McGuire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Active,hands-on learners are intensely interested in learning skills as toddlers. They will pay attention to the mechanics of any task, and practice, practice, practice until they can master it. How is it that this focused learner becomes labelled as ADHD, "attention-deficit," upon reaching fourth grade? Do we really offer "equal opportunity" for education if we do not provide equal access to these "non-academic," non-reading and -writing-oriented learners?]]></description>
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<p>This 18-month old toddler is intent about learning. He is hard at work, figuring out every task, every piece of equipment put before him. He practices and practices until he masters a task. He comes back week after week to try again. He watches intently, trying to figure out &#8220;the trick&#8221; of doing each thing.</p>
<p>This child is an active, &#8220;hands-on&#8221; learner. He learns by doing.</p>
<p>Try blowing bubbles with him. While another child might clap their hands and chase the shiny bubbles, this one must &#8220;do it himself,&#8221; even if, time and again, he puts the blower into his mouth and ends up with a soapy taste. One day the wind helps him out, blowing bubbles out as he swings the wand. He is so ecstatic he almost falls out of the chair, and he repeats this magic time and again, laughing with joy: &#8220;I can do it!&#8221;</p>
<p>Months ago, he brought pop beads to me, over and over again, watching intently: how did they come apart? How go back together? Now, he has mastered the pulling apart, but not the putting back together. He stares and stares as I perform this magic: how do you do it?</p>
<p>Same with stacking blocks, placing rings on pegs, opening and closing small doors and windows, getting puzzle pieces to fit. He will practice over and over until he can do it, then move on.</p>
<p>The first day of kindergarten, he might be practicing standing on his head while the other children sit in a circle and listen to a story. First day of first grade, he is over trying to figure out how the pencil sharpener works while the others sit in a circle and listen while the teacher sings songs.</p>
<p>By fourth grade, when &#8220;academics&#8221; (reading and writing) thoroughly replace hands-on learning through manipulation, he will possibly be diagnosed as ADHD, &#8220;attention-deficit disorder,&#8221; and given medication so that he CAN sit still like all the other children while the teacher teaches.</p>
<p>Who is the real learner here? The passive recipient of information or the active, &#8220;hands-on&#8221; learner? Why does our education system place so much more emphasis upon &#8220;passive&#8221; learning, the absorption and reporting back of information? How can we justify that academic skills/college education will demarcate who will succeed and who will fail in our American society? There is no &#8220;equal opportunity&#8221; here!</p>
<p>Some children, some people, will never be &#8220;academically&#8221; inclined, in terms of enjoying reading literature and poetry, dealing with abstract similes and metaphors more than working with their hands. No amount of &#8220;equal opportunity&#8221; to a college education will allow them equal access to the rewards of our society, if their learning style is cut out of the curriculum starting in fourth grade, insuring their failure. Yet why can we say that their learning style, their skill set, is any less worthy of the extra funding that we give those who can make it into &#8220;college?&#8221;</p>
<p>We say these hands-on learners are unmotivated, not trying hard enough, &#8220;unfocused,&#8221; unable to concentrate, while we force them to learn in OUR style, sitting still for reading and writing, day after day.</p>
<p>And, when they fail, we shunt them into low-paying jobs or, most shamefully, fill our armed forces with them, their best option for hands-on skill training, only including that they risk their lives for their &#8220;higher education.&#8221;</p>
<p>This is not equal opportunity!! It will never be resolved by more chances to go to college. That door, the academic door, is firmly shut to them, as long as interest in reading and writing is the skill needed for getting in.</p>
<p>What if they were allowed hands-on learning opportunities throughout their school years, equally to reading and writing. What if by grade 12 they left school with skills in electrical wiring, welding, cable laying, construction, wood working, plumbing, website design, fashion design, horticulture, emergency medicine, and all the other hands-on things they could learn in twelve years! And what if these skills led to equal-opportunity higher education and high paying jobs?</p>
<p>The Career Academy model, which includes hands-on learning of specific job skills in high school learning communities, steps in this direction. Beginning in elementary school, Howard Gardner&#8217;s model of Multiple Intelligences shows how to incorporate all learning styles into education.</p>
<p>There is a huge inequality if reading-and-writing, academic preference for learning style, becomes the hurdle that learners have as the only path to equal opportunity education.</p>
<p>See <a title="Creative Edge Education at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1c.php">Creative Edge Education</a>, <a title="Creative Edge Parenting at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1d.php">Creative Edge Parenting</a>, and Dr. McGuire&#8217;s paper, <a title="&quot;Don't Fight 'Em, Join 'EM&quot; ADHD PDF" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/pdf/2F2fDontFightThemJoinThemCommunityPlanforADHD.pdf">&#8220;Don&#8217;t Fight Them, Join Them: Community-Wide Intervention for ADHD, School Drop Out, and Juvenile Delinquency.&#8221;</a> You&#8217;ll find links to Gardner and other multi-modality models for education.</p>
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<p><strong>Based upon Gendlin’s Experiential Focusing (</strong><a onclick="urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/www.focusing.org');" href="http://www.focusing.org/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>www.focusing.org</strong></span></a><strong> ) and Rogers’ Empathic Listening,</strong> our website is packed with Free Resources and instructions in these basic self-help skills. Learn how to build S<a title="Building Supportive Community at CEF Website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1b.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">upport Groups</span></a>, <a title="Conscious Relationships at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1e.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">Conscious Relationships</span></a>, and <a title="Creative Edge Organizations at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1a.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">Creative Edge Organizations </span></a>based upon these basic skills of emotional intelligence.</p>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 20:42:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathy McGuire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Enneagram personality measure identifies nine differing Personality Styles, each with strengths and weaknesses. Enneagram expert identifies President Barack Obama as Enneagram One: A Man of Law.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="left"><span style="font-family: TTE248C9A0t00; font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: TTE248C9A0t00; font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: TTE248C9A0t00; font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: TTE248C9A0t00; font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: TTE248C9A0t00; font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: TTE248C9A0t00; font-size: small;">The Enneagram is a well-regarded personality measure dividing people into nine distinct personality styles: One: Critic, Two: Helper, Three: Performer, Four: Individualist, Five: Observer, Six: Loyalist, Seven: Enthusiast, Eight: Challenger, Nine: Peacemaker.</span></span></span></span></span></span></p>
<p>While other Enneagram experts have identified Obama as an Enneagram Nine or Three , expert Clarence Thomson of <a title="Enneagram Central website" href="http://www.enneagramcentral.com">Enneagram Central</a> stands by his decision that Obama is an Enneagram One: A Man of Law.</p>
<p align="left">Thomson describes the <a title="Nine Enneagram Styles described at Enneagram Central website" href="http://www.enneagramcentral.com/Enneagram/TheNineStyles.htm">Nine Personality Styles</a>, including Enneagram One: The Critic. Each description describes the undeveloped and developed aspects of each style:</p>
<p align="left">&#8220;Ones search for what is wrong and how to fix it. When stuck, they are rigid, moralistic and angry. When free, they are supremely moral, compassionate and reliable. Their life is about goodness: its absence or presence.&#8221;</p>
<p align="left">Here are excerpts from Thomson&#8217;s article in the <a title="Out of the Box Coaching e-newsletter" href="http://www.breakoutofthebox.com/MayNews09.pdf">Out of the Box Coaching Newsletter </a>:</p>
<p align="left">&#8220;President Obama, in my opinion, is a style One. Ones tend to be idealistic, guided by clear convictions of right and wrong, and work oriented. Every style has certain strengths and limitations. Style One is, in one way, unduly humble. Ones have a tendency to erase their personal feelings and unite, almost merge their personal agenda with the demands of an ideal or law or tradition or principle.</p>
<p align="left">If you ask Ones what they think, you will get your answer consciously or unconsciously filtered through principles that are larger than themselves and may be inherited from a book or tradition.</p>
<p align="left">It is probably not accidental that Obama would study constitutional law. He will make his decisions based not as much on personal convictions as on the wisdom of the law. He will be a lawyer all day long. He may have some charisma, but he will not be &#8216;chatty&#8217; or intensely personal. He will have charisma, but not really panache.&#8221;</p>
<p align="left">And later in the article:</p>
<p>&#8220;Obama’s idealism is not based on evidence. It is based on an inner conviction that right can and must prevail. This is a two-edged characteristic. On the one hand, it enabled him to work as a community organizer with defeat scribbled on every wall and etched in every defeated face. He kept going against the evidence. This could get him into trouble if he has a policy that is not working. He may believe it <span style="font-family: TTE24A65E0t00; font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: TTE24A65E0t00; font-size: small;">must </span></span><span style="font-family: TTE248C9A0t00; font-size: small;"><span style="font-family: TTE248C9A0t00; font-size: small;">work, even against the evidence.&#8221;</span></span></p>
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<p><strong>Based upon Gendlin’s Experiential Focusing (</strong><a onclick="urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/www.focusing.org');" href="http://www.focusing.org/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>www.focusing.org</strong></span></a><strong> ) and Rogers’ Empathic Listening,</strong> our website is packed with Free Resources and instructions in these basic self-help skills. Learn how to build S<a title="Building Supportive Community at CEF Website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1b.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">upport Groups</span></a>, <a title="Conscious Relationships at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1e.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">Conscious Relationships</span></a>, and <a title="Creative Edge Organizations at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1a.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">Creative Edge Organizations </span></a>based upon these basic skills of emotional intelligence.</p>
<p><strong>You can try out    </strong><a title="Focusing exercise at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/freeresources/2a1a.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>“Focusing: Find Out What Is Bothering You.”</strong></span></a></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 30 May 2009 20:12:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Kathy McGuire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Toddler's feelings are transparent. As we age and learn to symbolize through language, we can also "lose touch" with ourselves and become unable to express ourselves. Intuitive Focusing and Active, Empathic Listening can help children "stay in touch" and express themselves as they grow. Intuitive Focusing and Focused Listening can also help adults to "refind" and express themselves authentically.]]></description>
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<a href='http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/?attachment_id=782' title='bradley-hat-183-800x600'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/may-24-2009-doll-club-flowers-bradley-hat-183-800x600-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Grandpa&#039;s Hats" title="bradley-hat-183-800x600" /></a>
<a href='http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/?attachment_id=783' title='may-24-2009-bradley-hat-185-800x600'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/may-24-2009-doll-club-flowers-bradley-hat-185-800x600-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="Happiness is Grandpa&#039;s hats" title="may-24-2009-bradley-hat-185-800x600" /></a>
<a href='http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/?attachment_id=784' title='may-24-2009--bradley-hat-181-800x600'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/may-24-2009-doll-club-flowers-bradley-hat-181-800x600-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="I am Grandpa and I am Safe" title="may-24-2009--bradley-hat-181-800x600" /></a>
<a href='http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/?attachment_id=785' title='may-24-2009-bradley-hat-189-800x600'><img width="150" height="150" src="http://www.cefocusing.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/05/may-24-2009-doll-club-flowers-bradley-hat-189-800x600-150x150.jpg" class="attachment-thumbnail" alt="With Grandpa&#039;s hat, I can go anywhere" title="may-24-2009-bradley-hat-189-800x600" /></a>
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<p>Toddlers, before learning words, can be so transparent, their whole body beaming out their emotions and needs.</p>
<p>First trips to the park, 16-months old, my steadily-walking toddler grandson simply sits down, in shock and awe, many times as he sees other people his size, all kinds of dogs, people stretched out on the grass. He simply cannot stand up and take in all this new information at the same time.</p>
<p>Almost choking on a piece of orange, as soon as recovered from the emotional upset, he &#8220;asks&#8221; (by pointing) for another piece of orange. He tastes it, chews it carefully, a quizzical look on his face. He simply MUST determine what went wrong, master this scary and unexpected experience.</p>
<p>First day in day care, he carries his jacket with him all day long, beaming out &#8220;I am reminding myself of home, I am holding on to home, I will be going home.&#8221;</p>
<p>Uneasy about leaving his home with Dad and Great-Grandparents to spend the day with me, he insists upon taking Great-Grandpa&#8217;s hats, and wearing them for hours.</p>
<p>As we develop more cognitively, our capacity to &#8220;symbolize&#8221; intervenes between our sheer emotional experiences and what we &#8220;choose&#8221; to express.</p>
<p>But, still, at age seven, I could read my son&#8217;s inner experience from outer symbols. Adopted at birth, having just received his first letter and photo of his birthmom, showing her with her &#8220;new&#8221; family, husband and child, he runs from the room angrily. I find him in his room a little later, where he has unravelled several hundred feet of fishing line from the spool, creating a huge tangle all around him (this image brings tears to me now, 15 years later). Using Roger&#8217;s Empathic Listening, I can reflect him to himself: &#8220;Seems like you are feeling all tangled up inside.&#8221;</p>
<p>As we get older and older, and through painful life experiences saying &#8220;Don&#8217;t show yourself here. Don&#8217;t cry. Don&#8217;t show fear. Don&#8217;t even show awe and joy,&#8221; we lose &#8220;touch&#8221; with ourselves, with that transparency, so that we cannot even name our own experience to ourselves, much less authentically express it to others.</p>
<p>Gendlin&#8217;s Focusing (<a href="http://www.focusing.org">www.focusing.org</a> ) and McGuire&#8217;s <a title="Intuitive Focusing instructions" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/freeresources/2a1a.php">Intuitive Focusing</a> can help you refind and reclaim your inner experiencing, allowing you to find the clarity needed to move forward in life situations</p>
<p>Using Intuitive Focusing and Empathic, Reflective, <a title="Active, Empathic Listening described" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/freeresources/2a1b.php">Focused Listening</a> with children can help them stay in tune with themselves and be able to express their inner experience, their emotions, wants, needs, creative ideas. See <a title="The Children's Corner at Focusing Institute" href="http://www.focusing.org/chfc/index.html">The Children&#8217;s Corner</a> at The Focusing Institute.</p>
<p>Read a <a title="Book Review of Focusing With Children" href="http://www.focusing.org/docs/focusing_with_children_review_brown_jan_2009.pdf">book review</a> of Stapert and Verleifde&#8217;s <em>Focusing With Children: The Art of Communication with Children At School and Home</em> , UK: PCCS Books, 2008 and order the book from <a title="Focusing With Children at Focusing Institute bookstore" href="http://www.focusing.org/eShop/10Browse.asp?category=Focusing%20Books">The Focusing Institute bookstore</a> or from <a title="Focusing with Children at Amazon" href="http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_b?url=search-alias%3Dstripbooks&amp;field-keywords=Stapert+Focusing+With+Children&amp;x=19&amp;y=15">Amazon</a>.</p>
<p>Also see Edwin M. McMahon&#8217;s <a title="Byond The Myth of Dominance at Amazon" href="http://www.amazon.com/Beyond-Myth-Dominance-Alternative-Violent/dp/1556125631/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1243711623&amp;sr=1-1">Beyond The Myth Of Dominance</a> for stories of taking a Focusing attitude with children, and McMahon&#8217;s <a title="Little Bird book at Amazon" href="http://www.amazon.com/Little-Bird-Who-Found-Herself/dp/1598795384/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1243711799&amp;sr=1-1">The Little Bird Who Found Herself</a>, a colorful and simple story book for children (and adults) about &#8220;sitting with&#8221; instead of &#8220;running away from&#8221; feelings and other felt-sensing in the body.</p>
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<p><strong>Based upon Gendlin’s Experiential Focusing (</strong><a onclick="urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/www.focusing.org');" href="http://www.focusing.org/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>www.focusing.org</strong></span></a><strong> ) and Rogers’ Empathic Listening,</strong> our website is packed with Free Resources and instructions in these basic self-help skills. Learn how to build S<a title="Building Supportive Community at CEF Website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1b.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">upport Groups</span></a>, <a title="Conscious Relationships at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1e.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">Conscious Relationships</span></a>, and <a title="Creative Edge Organizations at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1a.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">Creative Edge Organizations </span></a>based upon these basic skills of emotional intelligence.</p>
<p><strong>You can try out    </strong><a title="Focusing exercise at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/freeresources/2a1a.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>“Focusing: Find Out What Is Bothering You.”</strong></span></a></p>
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<p> <strong>See  <a title="Conflict Resolution Mini-Course on website" href="http://cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a9.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">Core Concept: Conflict Resolution</span></a></strong><strong> to find a complete mini-course on Interpersonal Focusing and Conflict Resolution, including Rosenberg’s Non-Violent Communication, Blanchard’s “One Minute Apology,” Patricia Evan’s books on Verbally Abuse and Controlling Relationships, McMahon’s <em>Beyond The Myth Of Dominance, </em>and much more.</strong></p>
<p><strong>See  <a title="Intimate Relationship Mini-Course at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a10.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">Core Concept: Intimate Relationship</span></a> to find a complete mini-course on increasing intimacy and sexuality, including the “Sharing Your Day” exercise, Listening/Focusing Partnerships for The Way of Relationship, untangling and equalizing desire, tantric sexuality, and much more.</strong></p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 26 May 2009 01:26:13 +0000</pubDate>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gendlin&#8217;s Focusing (Bantam, 1981, 2007; <a href="http://www.focusing.org">www.focusing.org</a> ), and McGuire&#8217;s <a title="Intuitive Focusing Instructions at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a1.php">Intuitive Focusing</a>, are premiere techniques for mind/body healing. Focusing happens exactly at the edge between conscious and unconscious, the &#8220;preconscious&#8221; that is immediately available as a &#8220;bodily felt sense.&#8221; McGuire&#8217;s calls it  &#8221;intuitive feel,&#8221; the &#8220;something-more-than-words,&#8221; <a title="Creative Edge Philosophy" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a11.php"> The Creative Edge</a>, the source of creativity, innovation, and problem solving.</p>
<p>Michael Mayer has years of experience working at the interface between mind and body, and between conscious/unconscious/preconscious. He has worked extensively combining body-centered practices like Tai Chi and Qigong with Focusing-Oriented Psychotherapy. Below he reviews his past work and announces his new book, <em>Energy Psychology: Self Healing methods For Bodymind Health, </em>which integrates energy therapies, meridian tapping methods like Emotional Freedom Techniques (<a href="http://www.emofree.com">www.emofree.com</a>)  as well as Qigong and many others, with Focusing for mind/body self-healing. Quoted from Dr. Mayer on The Focusing Discussion e-list at <a href="http://www.focusing.org">www.focusing.org</a> (subscribe in Category &#8220;Felt Community&#8221;, then e-lists): </p>
<p>I was the Focusing training coordinator for the San Francisco East Bay area from around 1978 to 1988, and Focusing has been close to my heart and an important part of my professional  life for many years.</p>
<p>Over the years I have integrated Focusing with many other traditions: In the 1980&#8242;s I  combined Focusing with psychomythology with my &#8220;Mythic Journey Process&#8221; (Mayer, <em>Focusing Folio</em> 1982);  in the 1990&#8242;s I integrated Focusing with  Qigong and Chronic Pain (Mayer, &#8220;Qigong and Behavioral Medicine, An Integrated approach to Chronic Pain,&#8221; <em>Qi Journal</em>, 1986). Then I brought Focusing together with many facets of Qigong and other traditions of postural initiation (Mayer, <em>Bodymind Healing Psychotherapy</em>, 2007). Now with my latest book I&#8217;m hoping to show the importance of Focusing to bring out the inner energetic dimensions of Energy Psychology.<br />
I wanted to let the Focusing community know that I have a new book ,<em> Energy Psychology: Self Healing Methods for Bodymind Health</em> (North Atlantic/Random House, 2009) that will be released tomorrow April 28th. Here&#8217;s an excerpt:<br />
&#8220;In order to bring the healing abilities of a comprehensive energy psychology to the public, I believe that in addition to the well-known energy psychology methods such as EFT, the field of energy psychology (EP) would be well served by expanding its terrain to include Qigong and methods of energy cultivation from other traditions of meditation and postural initiation (Goodman, 1990), depth psychology, Gendlin&#8217;s Focusing, symbolic process traditions, Kabalistic methods, etc&#8230;</p>
<p><strong>&#8230;The internal process of psychological change, as Gendlin (1978) rightly pointed out, has energy activation  (Qigong) as an inextricable part of it, as a patient&#8217;s energetic &#8220;felt shift&#8221; emerges along with a patient&#8217;s discovering new meaning.</strong> //bolding by Dr. McGuire//</p>
<p>Also symbolic process methods, such as my Mythic Journey Process (Mayer, 1994) and River of Life Process (Mayer 2007, 2009), create an internal energy (Jung, Vol. VIII) that helps a person find a meaningful life path, and helps patients to find a new life stance (Goodman, 1990, Mayer, 2004). As related to EP, this expands the field to include both internal and external methods of energetic change. ..My newest book, Energy Psychology: Self-Healing Practices for Bodymind Health is written to help accomplish these aims (Mayer, 2009)&#8230;.&#8221;</p>
<p>If you are interested in getting a copy of Energy Psychology, on April 28th,  tomorrow, the book will be  available on <a title="Energy Healing book at amazon" href="http://www.amazon.com/Energy-Psychology-Self-Healing-Practices-Bodymind/dp/1556437242/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1243300920&amp;sr=1-1">Amazon.com</a>(direct link to Mayer&#8217;s book), and all major books stores, or you can order Energy Psychology or any of my other books from my website <a href="http://www.bodymindhealing.com">www.bodymindhealing.com</a>.<br />
I&#8217;ll look forward to hearing more about what other Focusers are up to nowadays from this list, and feel free to email me <a href="mailto:drmichael@bodymindhealing.com">drmichael@bodymindhealing.com</a>.<br />
Warm regards,<br />
Michael Mayer</p>
<p><strong>Claudia Conza also announces the Second International &#8220;Focusing in the body-oriented professions&#8221; residential workshop, Sept. 22-26, 2009, Maennedorf, Switzerland (also from the Focusing Discussion e-list):</strong></p>
<p> <br />
Dear all, Guten Tag<br />
 <br />
Finally I am happy to announce our 2. International residential workshop “Meeting at the Edge”2009 in Switzerland<br />
After the big success in Ischia, Italy in 2007 we are ready to introduce the next location for:<br />
 <br />
“MEETING AT THE EDGE”<br />
Focusing in the body-oriented professions<br />
A 4 day residential workshop<br />
September 22 – 26, 2009<br />
Boldern, conference center, Maennedorf, (Zurich) Switzerland.<br />
 <br />
The event will be in English with translation in to German and Italian. Please check our webpage: <a href="http://www.mae2009.org">www.mae2009.org</a> where with time we will ad more and more information, photos and answers to the FAQ.<br />
Attached to print I am sending our flyer in pdf format to print our flyer.<br />
 <br />
I am looking forward to meeting you in September 2009 here in Switzerland to share and explore on our topic and to show you the lovely site with the view down to the lake of Zurich and our mountains.<br />
 <br />
Claudia<br />
In the name of the organising board, Francesca, Nicoletta, Mathias, Larry, Steve, Jack</p>
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<p><strong>Based upon Gendlin’s Experiential Focusing (</strong><a onclick="urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/www.focusing.org');" href="http://www.focusing.org/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>www.focusing.org</strong></span></a><strong> ) and Rogers’ Empathic Listening,</strong> our website is packed with Free Resources and instructions in these basic self-help skills. Learn how to build S<a title="Building Supportive Community at CEF Website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1b.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">upport Groups</span></a>, <a title="Conscious Relationships at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1e.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">Conscious Relationships</span></a>, and <a title="Creative Edge Organizations at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1a.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">Creative Edge Organizations </span></a>based upon these basic skills of emotional intelligence.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Kathy McGuire</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Transition Town movement is an example of bottom-up empowerment, local community organization for global climate change. Political action and emotional growth and support are combined with conflict resolution skill training, so that Head, Heart, and Hands are all enlisted in common cause. Listening/Focusing Communities are one model of peer support that could be incorporated into Transition Towns.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p class="description UIOneOff_Container">In the Transition Towns movement, <a href="http://www.transitiontowns.org">www.transitiontowns.org</a>,  political action is thoroughly integrated at the local level, building local sustainability and community as a basis for the &#8220;resiliency&#8221; needed to affect long-term, global change. But even more importantly, skill training for emotional and personal growth and conflict resolution is built right into hands-on, political action. </p>
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<div class="description UIOneOff_Container">Here is a short definition of  Transition Towns from a <a title="Facebook Transition Conference event" href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/event.php?eid=194380180606&amp;ref=mf">Facebook Event page</a> announcing an Introductory Workshop and the 2009 Transition Towns Conference in the UK:</div>
<div class="description UIOneOff_Container">           &#8221;The Transition movement is a fast-growing, bottom-up response to peak oil and climate change. There are now thousands of communities around the world using this model, and it is being widely acknowledged as a positive, solutions focused approach, &#8216;more like a party than a protest march&#8217;.&#8221;</div>
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<div class="description UIOneOff_Container">From the Transition Towns website, <a href="http://www.transitiontowns.org">www.transitiontowns.org</a> :</div>
<h2 class="description UIOneOff_Container">&#8230;A Transition Initiative is a community (lots of examples <a class="wikilink" href="http://transitiontowns.org/TransitionNetwork/TransitionCommunities"><strong><span style="color: #546188;">here</span></strong></a>) working together to look Peak Oil and Climate Change squarely in the eye and address this BIG question:</h2>
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<div class="indent">&#8220;for all those aspects of life that this community needs in order to sustain itself and thrive, how do we significantly increase resilience (to mitigate the effects of Peak Oil) and drastically reduce carbon emissions (to mitigate the effects of Climate Change)?&#8221;</div>
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<p class="vspace">After going through a comprehensive and creative process of:</p>
<ul>
<li>awareness raising around peak oil, climate change and the need to undertake a community lead process to rebuild resilience and reduce carbon</li>
<li>connecting with existing groups in the community</li>
<li>building bridges to local government</li>
<li>connecting with other transition initiatives</li>
<li>forming groups to look at all the key areas of life (food, energy, transport, health, heart &amp; soul, economics &amp; livelihoods, etc)</li>
<li>kicking off projects aimed at building people&#8217;s understanding of resilience and carbon issues and community engagement</li>
<li>eventually launching a community defined, community implemented &#8220;Energy Descent Action Plan&#8221; over a 15 to 20 year timescale</li>
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<p class="vspace">This results in a coordinated range of projects across all these areas of life that strives to rebuild the resilience we&#8217;ve lost as a result of cheap oil and reduce the community&#8217;s carbon emissions drastically.&#8221;</p>
<p class="vspace">I like the actual example of a transition town which you can experience at <a title="Transition Town Westcliff website" href="http://www.transitionwestcliff.org.uk/">Transition Town Westcliff</a>. You&#8217;ll get a taste for all the fun and educational and hands-on gatherings, meetings, celebrations as a town works together for local sustainability affecting global change. &#8220;More like a party than a protest march,&#8221; indeed! I can&#8217;t wait to build or to join such a community.</p>
<p>I like the emphasis upon personal and emotional growth, mutual support, and conflict resolution skill training added into the more specific political goals of building local resilience as part of changing global problems of peak oil and climate change.</p>
<div class="description UIOneOff_Container">I have offered copies of my manual, <em>Focusing in Community: How To Start A Listening/Focusing Support Group,</em> as one model of peer-based support which teaches core skills, <a title="Intuitive Focusing Instructions at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a1.php">Intuitive Focusing</a> and <a title="Focused Listening Instructions at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a2.php">Focused Listening</a>,  that can be applied to  emotional, personal, interpersonal, and group-level growth and community building.</div>
<p>There is a handbook for starting a transition town,<em> <a title="Purchase Transition Town Handbook" href="http://transitionculture.org/shop/the-transition-handbook/">The Transition Town Handbook: from oil dependence to local resilience</a></em>,written by founder Rob Hopkins. You can order the book at the link.</p>
<p>Find out all about Transition Towns, and the 2009 Conference in London, UK, May 22-24, 2009 at <a href="http://www.transitiontowns.org">www.transitiontowns.org</a> . The conference itself sold out immediately, but you can still sign up for evening Introductory events and pre- and post-conference workshops.</p>
<p><strong>The Creative Edge Focusing(TM) Approach To Community Building</strong></p>
<p>Creative Edge Focusing (TM)’s <a title="Culture of Creativity described at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a11.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">Culture of Creativity</span></a>  fights apathy by engaging every person  at the Creative Edge of individual experiencing. Whether in <a title="Creative Edge Education model" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1c.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">Creative Edge Education</span></a> or <a title="Creative Edge Organization model at Creative Edge Focusing website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1a.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">Creative Edge Organizations</span></a>, Listening/Focusing Turns are used as a basic method for helping people to find and articulate their own Creative Edge.</p>
<p><a title="Intuitive Focusing Instructions at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a1.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">Creative Edge Focusing</span></a> and <a title="Focused Listening instructions at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a2.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">Creative Edge Listening</span></a> can be used for problem solving at home and at work, alone, in parenting and relationships, during interpersonal conflict, and in group or community decision making situations. <a title="Creative Edge Pyramid described at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a4.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">The Creative Edge Pyramid</span></a> describes applications from Focusing Alone to Creative Edge Organizations.</p>
<p>For application in business settings, see my article, <a title="Creative Edge Organizations As Focusing Communities at www.focusing.org" onclick="urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/www.focusing.org');" href="http://www.focusing.org/folio/Vol21No12008/21_CreativeEdgeTRIB.pdf"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">“Creative Edge Organizations: Businesses and Organizations As A ‘Kind’ Of Focusing Community”</span></a> from The Folio: Thirtieth Anniversity Tribute edition at The Focusing Institute, <a onclick="urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/www.focusing.org');" href="http://www.focusing.org/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">www.focusing.org</span></a> .</p>
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<p><strong>Creative Edge Focusing (</strong><a href="http://www.cefocusing.com/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>www.cefocusing.com</strong></span></a><strong> )</strong> teaches two basic self-help skills, <a title="Intuitive Focusing Instructions" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a1.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">Intuitive Focusing</span></a> and <a title="Focused Listening instructions at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a2.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">Focused Listening</span></a>, which can be applied at home and at work through <a title="Creative Edge Pyramid described at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/coreconcepts/1a4.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;">The Creative Edge Focusing Pyramid</span></a>.</p>
<p><strong>Based upon Gendlin’s Experiential Focusing (</strong><a onclick="urchinTracker ('/outbound/article/www.focusing.org');" href="http://www.focusing.org/"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>www.focusing.org</strong></span></a><strong> ) and Rogers’ Empathic Listening,</strong> our website is packed with Free Resources and instructions in these basic self-help skills. Learn how to build S<a title="Building Supportive Community at CEF Website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1b.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">upport Groups</span></a>, <a title="Conscious Relationships at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1e.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">Conscious Relationships</span></a>, and <a title="Creative Edge Organizations at CEF website" href="http://cefocusing.com/isthisyou/3a1a.php"><span style="color: #0066cc;">Creative Edge Organizations </span></a>based upon these basic skills of emotional intelligence.</p>
<p><strong>You can try out    </strong><a title="Focusing exercise at CEF website" href="http://www.cefocusing.com/freeresources/2a1a.php"><span style="color: #b85b5a;"><strong>“Focusing: Find Out What Is Bothering You.”</strong></span></a></p>
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